Maurice and I have been happily married for over 5 years now. And although our marriage might seem unconventional and a bit extreme to most people, we have found a happy balance of power and submission that works for us. I say “power”, because in any marriage or relationship there is a dominant and submissive partner, oftentimes the male because of his physical size and earning power. But as any woman will tell you, it is the female who holds the upper hand in all things sexual, and if a woman has a dominant personality coupled to her sexuality it means one thing – the man must obey!
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My husband is by no means a weak or wimpy man, quite the contrary, he is an accomplished gymnast and in the peak of physical conditioning for someone his age. He just knows that in our marriage I am the dominant partner and he must submit to all my demands, both financial and sexual. I myself am an ex-model and although I hate the vanity of calling myself exceptionally beautiful, I am confident in my looks and comfortable in my body, having done many nude pictorials and topless modeling in my career. We met at a photo shoot for the summer Olympics featuring gymnasts and models in various sensual poses and situations, and as corny as it sounds, we did fall in love at first sight.
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We dated as best we could given our busy schedules, and when the opportunity presented itself for us to actually sleep together, I made sure that Maurice knew there were definite ground rules to be followed. Specifically, I instructed him that he must ask permission to either touch me or become aroused in my presence, wanting to make sure from the outset that he knew I was in control. At first he thought it a little strange, but admitted that having me tell him when he could become erect or not made him strangely aroused in itself, and he delighted in putting himself under my control sexually.
Now when I say under my control, I don’t mean I’m the type of relentless harpy who delights in constantly micromanaging her man and nagging him over every little facet of ordinary day to day life. It’s only in the bedroom that I take control and demand the strictest obedience to my wants and wishes. I think all men naturally want a woman who is both a mother and a lover, and submitting sexually to a powerful female figure comes naturally to them. And to be honest, I don’t really give a shit what other people think, my husband and I are happy in our female dominant sexual relationship and that’s all that really matters!
I don’t really tell any of my girlfriends what we do in the bedroom, because I think that is something that should remain private between husband and wife. It’s too easy to be misunderstood and judged for things that frankly most people don’t understand, and I would hate for Maurice to experience any humiliation or embarrassment from his friends or associates. People can be so cruel and judging, harshly labeling things that they don’t understand or feel they must go along with the group in condemning them. Even though we all know for a fact, what most people will do in the dark they will deny in the light!
The one thing that I keep secret because I feel most men would try to humiliate and embarrass my husband about, is the fact that I keep him in what I like to call “enforced chastity.” I tease Maurice sexually without mercy, but do not allow him to satisfy his sexual urges or in fact even display them. Which is a rather clinical way of saying I don’t allow him to get an erection without my permission. It’s a game we like to play, that although frustrating at times for him, leads to some of the most passionate and satisfying sexual encounters we’ve ever enjoyed as man and wife.
In order to ensure his strict obedience to my demands, I employ a delightful little device called a “cock lock”, which I purchased from an online sex toy store for a quite reasonable price. It operates much like the cruel medieval device known as a chastity belt, but with certain anatomical differences making it perfect for keeping a man in line. It’s simply a horn shaped metal device that clamps about the man’s penis and fastens around the base of his scrotum, keeping his limp penis clamped tightly to his balls and unable to achieve an erection. The whole thing is held in place by small heart-shaped lock and key, of which I am the only one allowed to possess. I keep the key on a small golden chain around my neck as a constant reminder to both Maurice and myself, that I am in control of all things sexual in our marriage.
It’s not particularly painful for the male, but can become quite restrictive if he tries to become erect and of course, makes it impossible for him to masturbate which is a good thing for a woman who wants to keep her man under control. It’s a known fact that if a woman grants a man constant sexual release, or allows him to masturbate at will, he can become unruly and unresponsive to her commands. Keep them horny girls, and they will do whatever you want!
Do I make Maurice wear the cock lock all the time? No, I allow him short periods in the morning and evening to take it off, but only in my presence. I know for a fact, like all males, if I left him alone after having denied him sex or weeks on end, he would be masturbating as quick and often as a teenage boy in puberty. It’s the very fact that I control his ability to orgasm that keeps him submissive and obedient to me.
Now one might naturally ask what I do for sexual release and gratification all the time I keep my husband and chastity? It’s no mystery, I simply allow him to service me sexually with his hands, fingers, tongue and any number of delicious vibrators and dildos from my extensive collection. I certainly get my daily quota of orgasms and gratifications that any married woman would desire, it’s just I keep my husband in a constant state of blue ball frustration. I have to say one of the most arousing things to me, is hearing my man beg and plead for me to unlock his cock and allow him an erection and orgasm. I generally allow him an orgasm every 7 to 10 days otherwise he can become sulky and pouty like a naughty little boy.
If you could see the look on his face when I dangle that small key in front of him, then order him to present himself for unlocking, you would think he was being granted the riches of the world or the key to immortality. Once unlocked, his penis literally leaps from the device almost instantly erect and ready for action. Of course, having been denied an orgasm for so long, he is quick to climax and the amount of semen ejaculated is truly breathtaking in its trajectory and amount. On nights when I allow him to orgasm, it is not unheard of for him to achieve climax 3 or 4 times in a short period of time. Naturally these are some of our most intense lovemaking sessions as man and wife, and we both cherish them as something special and unique to our marriage. Maurice will be the first to tell you that these incredible times make all the pain and suffering worthwhile!
So ladies, if you want to keep your man under control, but always ready for sex at your command – get a cock lock and keep the key handy!
a Dominant Wife
[chastity mistress and practitioner of orgasm denial]
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